Why Smart Parents Can’t Turn Ideas Into Content (And The 6-Step System That Changes Everything)
A step-by-step content creation system that works with scattered schedules, not against them
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The Real “Consistency Problem” Isn’t Ideas
Let’s be honest.
If ideas were cash, every parent I know would be richer than a Michigan pothole repair crew in April. Still, most of those 3AM flashes of brilliance go missing—buried deeper than a lost mitten in December.
Why can’t smart, creative parents turn all those “I should write this down!” moments into, you know, anything actually written?
It’s not an idea problem.
It’s a follow-through problem.
Here’s the good news: consistency isn’t a magical genetic trait—it’s a skill. And today you’re getting a playbook (tested in living rooms, not boardrooms) for bringing your best ideas back from the 3AM graveyard.
Or as Denzel Washington puts it:
“Goals on the road to achievement cannot be achieved without discipline and consistency.”
— Denzel Washington
So, grab a mug of something hot (coffee, or if you’ve really had a week, leftover hot dog water - just kidding…maybe).
Let’s talk about the six-step system that saves your ideas from extinction.
Why This Actually Matters
Last week, dozens of you replied, sharing your biggest frustration: watching other creators crank out content while your best ideas collect dust.
Here’s the cold cup of truth: you don’t have an idea problem.
You have a processing problem.
My finance-nerd brain loves a good system—the kind of system that can, in theory, find your car keys AND tell you where your second grader left a shoe.
But building processes in healthcare was somehow easier than turning my parenting a-ha’s into publishable pieces. Three years, 73 voice memos, 23 drafts, and zero published posts later, I finally cracked the code.
Since then: multiple newsletters, oodles of social posts, guest articles and podcast episodes—all from the system I’m sharing here.
Not theory.
Not vibes.
Just what actually works when your “office” is a minivan and your creative time comes in 12-minute slices between “Dad, where’s my [lost object]?” and that next school form you forgot to sign (that was due yesterday).
The REAL Problem: Smart People Get Stuck
Nobody tells you: your constraints aren’t your weakness—they’re your secret advantage.
You don’t have the luxury of perfectionism.
Six hours editing one paragraph? Sure, and maybe I’ll finally alphabetize my spice rack. (Spoiler: no, I won’t.)
You need a system that works when you’re tired, distracted, or fueled by your third cup of “Why did I think parenting would be easier than my last job?” coffee.
Theater taught me improv.
Finance taught me process.
Parenting taught me “good enough, shipped” beats “perfect, stuck in drafts.”
Most creators treat ideas like rare snowflakes.
Raw thoughts → [Process: this 6-step pipeline] → Finished content.
As systems expert James Clear says:
“You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.” — James Clear (Atomic Habits)
And researcher Dr. Barbara Oakley (A Mind for Numbers) shows that your brain works in two modes: focused (spreadsheets) and diffuse (those fleeting, random inspirations in the shower or preschool pickup line).
The right system bridges both.
The 6-Step Thought-to-Content Pipeline
Creative people generate about 10x more ideas than they’ll ever use. You know, kind of like how your garage stores five half-built IKEA projects (I won’t judge).
My brain is part Excel sheet, part snow-boot. This pipeline is robust enough for Michigan winter and simple enough for a tired parent to actually use.
Step 1: Rapid Capture (The “Good Enough” Rule)
Golden Rule: Speed beats quality.
Your job isn’t to write literature; it’s to capture the idea before your kid smears peanut butter on your phone.
How:
Voice memo in the carpool lane
Text yourself at soccer practice
Scribble on a Meijer receipt
Key: No editing, no organizing, no “making it pretty.” Dump it and move on.
Example: Instead of writing “Beautiful essay about parenting and productivity,” just jot, “parenting + productivity chaos = story?”
The parent who waits for perfect capture captures nothing.
Step 2: Weekly Triage (“Sort or Slot”)
Same time each week (for me, weekend mornings—right before I chase dandelions out of the yard). Sort everything into:
Develop: Has real potential
Combine: Fragments that could connect
Compost: Ideas that serve as fertilizer
Treat it like portfolio management, not a referendum on your genius.
15-20 minutes a week. Not even enough time for your coffee to cool.
Step 3: Idea Expansion (The “Five W’s + So What?” Method) — Expanded
You’ve got an idea that made the cut. Now what?
Most creators freeze here, staring at a Post-It like it’s a riddle from the Sphinx.
Run each “develop” idea through these prompts (answer in 1-2 lines, not an essay):
Who cares about this?
What problem or story does it address?
When is it most relevant?
Where does the reader encounter it?
Why should anyone care?
So what? (Is there advice/action/solidarity at the end?)
Example: “Surviving the Family Morning Routine”
Who: Parents with more kids than matching socks
What: Every school morning feels like Home Alone
When: School days, snow days, travel sports
Where: Kitchen, hallway, minivan, coffee in hand
Why: Morning stress sets the tone for the day
So what: Three-step script to get out the door with sanity and lunchboxes
Don’t make it poetic—make it practical. This isn’t your family Christmas letter.
Mistakes to avoid:
Over-explaining (“IKEA manual” syndrome)
Skipping “so what” (people need a reason to care)
Trying to answer ALL six prompts. Pick the punchy ones.
Pro tip: If your answer feels boring, dig deeper or combine with another idea (see Step 4).
Step 4: Connection Mapping (“Link and Think”)
Look for connections between ideas—even weird ones.
Key Question: “How is [A] like [B]?”
For example:
“Morning routines” + “decision fatigue” + “grocery shopping with kids” =
The Three-Touch Rule: How to Make Overwhelming Tasks Manageable
You already connect dots every day. This just makes it intentional.
Toolbox: Where I Actually Store and Process Ideas
Fact: Most note-taking apps were made for people with zero children.
Here’s what actually works for me:
Kortex: heavy lifting, idea database, AI suggestions (but with less judging than your in-laws)
Creator Buddy: formatting for output, so you’re not staring at a blank Google Doc muttering, “What even IS a thread?”
Truth: These tools are built for chaos. In Michigan, we call that “February.” (Am I still on the road? IYKYK.)
Step 5: Output Formatting (“Container Strategy”)
Match your idea to a proper “container”:
Newsletter = for nuance/teaching
X/Twitter thread = for step-by-step guides
LinkedIn = for the “I’m a professional but also human” crowd
Instagram carousel = for visuals and confessions
Pick your container before you write, and tailor for it.
Step 6: Iteration Scheduling (“Draft, Ship, Improve”)
Set dates for drafting, publishing, and reviewing—just like you set out snow boots and school papers the night before.
Draft week: 70% done is good enough
Ship week: Publish—even if your inner perfectionist winces
Improve week: Note what worked; compost what didn’t. (Like last year’s garage sale leftovers.)
“It’s not what we do once in a while that shapes our lives. It’s what we do consistently.”
— Tony Robbins
Done is better than perfect (and, yes, eventually even a Michigan driveway gets cleared).
Quick Test: The 15-Minute Real-World Challenge
Try this experiment. Lunch in one hand, phone in the other:
Step 1: Voice memo—“Maybe consistency is overrated for parents with chaos routines?”
Step 2: Slot in “develop” pile—links to productivity, parenting, and reality.
Step 3: Who: parents; What: “realistic consistency;” So what: aim for flexibility.
Step 4: Connect to perfectionism, seasonal schedules, or Mondays.
Step 5: Pick format: “Why Consistent Parents Aren’t Actually Consistent” newsletter.
Step 6: Draft Tuesday, ship Friday, review Sunday.
Fifteen minutes. One written thing.
If you finished your sandwich too, that’s a bonus.
What This Really Changes
Before:
73 voice memos, 23 half-done drafts
“Why can’t I finish anything?”
After:
12 newsletters, 47 posts, 3 guest articles
More ideas than I have time to use (finally, a good problem)
Excitement to see others succeed—no more envy
The big shift: Stop waiting for perfect ideas. Start processing the imperfect ones.
This pipeline doesn’t create ideas—it rescues them. Like a snowplow for your brain.
The Permission You Needed
Permission to be imperfect.
Permission to publish before you’re “ready.”
Permission to value progress over polish—like your best effort at shoveling the driveway after the plow comes by (again).
Your messy, constraint-filled life isn’t a hurdle.
It’s the source material.
Could anyone else write your story the way you do?
Nope. That’s your lane—potholed or not.
Your FAQs (The Stuff You’re Probably Thinking at 2AM)
“What if I don’t have anything interesting to say?”
Your “boring” Tuesday is someone else’s lifeline.“How long until I see results?”
It takes most new creators 3–6 months to gain traction. Month one? The void. Month three? Replies, real feedback, and—maybe—fewer self-doubt spirals.“What if I publish garbage?”
You will. The internet has the attention span of a goldfish. Publish and move on.“How often should I post?”
Predictability > frequency. Show up when you say you will—once a month is better than crushing it once and ghosting for three months.Batch or one-at-a-time?
Batch your thinking; ship your writing.
Vote or drop a comment—spaghetti stains accepted.
If this helped you, the best thing you can do is forward this newsletter to another parent-creator stuck with too many ideas and not enough momentum, and make sure to hit the heart button and restack to share with others.
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Until next week,
Keep shoveling (literally, or just in your drafts folder),
—Matt
P.S. If you try even one step this week, let me know.
Cheering you on from the Midwest—layered up, caffeinated, and still finding mittens from last February (isn’t it almost summer?)
P.P.S. For additional ways I can help you to get a boost on your journey, be sure to check out my other publications, ApParent Solopreneur (see what I did there?) and Daily Refill, a curated newsletter with the latest in self care news to fill your cup throughout the week.