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Ken Conant's avatar

I often find it tricky to balance being vulnerable with presenting confidence.

My writing often feels like one or the other. As a shield I think I err towards a confident voice.

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Matt Tilmann's avatar

You’re right, it can be tricky. For my 2024 year in review post, I shared about my shoulder dislocation recovery I went through. I hadn’t really posted about it publicly, but my hope was that it could still inspire others. :)

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Harrison Moore's avatar

Nice one Matt! Have you read the book called Algorithms to Live By?

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Matt Tilmann's avatar

Thank you Harrison! I haven’t read that one yet, is it pretty good?

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Nikki Finlay's avatar

Thank you for your kind words about my work.

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Matt Tilmann's avatar

Certainly, thank you again for your support!

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sharon calvert's avatar

Fantastic article. I love your views on authentic expression! Thanks for the inspiring read and helpful tips! 🙏💖

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Matt Tilmann's avatar

Thank you so much for the kind words, Sharon! I know many worry about needing to "write for the algorithm," but wanted to flip it on what if we instead be our own algorithm, and let the rest fall into place? :)

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sharon calvert's avatar

Totally resonate. I just write from the heart and divine channel, trusting the right people will find my words at the right time. 🙏💖

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Matt Tilmann's avatar

I love that perspective! Or like @Lindsey Epperly Sulek says, “what’s meant for me, can’t miss me.” 😊

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Diane Tilmann's avatar

So many helpful tips, thank you! This quote of yours especially resonated with me:

“Start the search for your Authentic North Star by asking yourself about your core values, passions, and beliefs. And then you can inject more of your personality that helps separate you from the content that is relatable or generic - the key is you!”

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Matt Tilmann's avatar

Thank you so much! It is a good compass to follow, and not just in content creation, but everyday situations as well.

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Diane Tilmann's avatar

I was thinking the same thing!🙂

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Patty Bee's avatar

This is great advice.

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